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The following is an extensive guide to the different Labels a Lesbian may have. In my experience I have come across many Lesbians who just thought they were a Lesbian. This guide was at first for TheLesbianClub's Chatroom Classes, but I have decided that this could benefit not only the club but many people out there. If you are a Lesbian and questioning what type of Lesbian you are, then this guide is for you!

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Lesbian is a term most widely used in the English language to describe sexual and romantic desire between females. The word may be used as a noun, to refer to women who identify themselves or who are characterized by others as having the primary attribute of female homosexuality, or as an adjective, to describe characteristics of an object or activity related to female same-sex desire.

:star: Alternate Definition: A woman who loves or is sexually attracted to women. I read through other descriptions of lesbian and some people who made definitions on this word are just plain retarded.

1. There is NO good or bad type of lesbian. It doesnt matter if they are ugly or pretty. They are people. Just like you get ugly and pretty straight people. You don't group them into 'good and bad groups' do you? =/.

2. Lesbians aren't all man haters. Yes a few are. But then again some (i'm not saying all) straight men are sexist towards women and treat them as objects. So you can't say that lesbians are all sexist when plenty of straight people are.

3. Those skanks you see on internet porn are not lesbians. They are whores that are trying to get guys to fuck them. If they are real lesbians then they AREN'T going to let you fuck them. Look up 'bi-sexual' asshole.

4. YOU AREN'T GOING TO TURN A LESBIAN STRAIGHT BY HAVING SEX WITH THEM. OMG. That's just plain stupid. Some guys that have their heads up their asses seem to think that lesbians are women you havn't ever had sex with a man before. Or that being homosexual is just a mental illness or something that can only be cured with sex with a guy. =/. If she's a lesbian then she's not going to appreciate you trying to fuck her. You'll probably just get slapped.

Another word for lesbian. Usually is only used by people who are gay, lesbian, bisexual or trans. A straight person using this word may offend some people.

:star: Alternate Definition: Although originally a derogatory term for lesbians, it is now often used with pride by lesbians themselves, especially the younger and hipper lesbian crowd. Some lesbians (especially older or super-sensitive ones) still object to the term, but it is becoming increasingly common and mainsteam (at least within the gay community), with events such as "Dyke Nights" or "Dyke Marches" being held around the country. In fact some dykes resent being called a lesbian, as they feel it is much less cool than being called a dyke.

Note: Dyke with a "y" is a lesbian. Dike with an "i" is for damming water.

Gold Star Lesbian
A gold star lesbian is a lesbian who has never slept with a man and has no intention of ever sleeping with a man.

Lone Star Lesbian
A Lone Star Lesbian is not a lesbian from Texas. A Lone Star Lesbian is someone who has only had sex with one person in their life. Straight and bisexual people can be Lone Stars too.

Lipstick Lesbian
A lipstick lesbian is a woman who loves other women, but also loves her clothes and makeup and shoes. She tends to dress on the femmy side. Also known as Femme or Fem.

:star: Alternate Definition: A feminine lesbian. It can be used interchangably with femme to indicate a feminine lesbian, but strictly speaking, a femme is usually attracted to masculine, or butch, lesbians and a lipstick lesbian is attracted to other feminine lesbians.

Often thought of as demure, submissive creatures, many, if not all femmes and lipstick lesbians are quite strong, independant women.

Chapstick Lesbian
A chapstick lesbian is also known as a soft butch or androgynous. She usually dresses quite casually and does not wear make-up. The term Chapstick Lesbian was popularized after an episode of the TV show Ellen. Someone asked Ellen if she were a lipstick lesbian or what. Ellen replied, she was more of a chapstick lesbian.

:star: Alternate Definition: A female homosexual whose gender identity is slightly to the femme side of neutral on the femme-butch continuum of gender presentation but whose appearance and preferences stop short of those of a "lipstick lesbian."

A feminine lesbian. Also known as a Lipstick Lesbian. Sometimes spelled Fem.

:star: Alternate Definition: A (traditionally) feminine woman. Mainly used to refer to a feminine lesbian, and especially a feminine lesbian who is attracted to masculine, or butch lesbians.

Often thought of as passive, dulcet, timid little things with long locks of hair; prissy dresses; great big fawn eyes; a high, baby-doll voice; the courage of a lamb and the intelligence of a gardenia. But we're all human, so don't expect that stereotype of finding every femme to be submissive, faint-hearted little fairies. Plenty of femmes kick butt and are even the dominant over their butch partners.

Blue Jeans Femme
A Blue Jean Femme is a lesbian who identifies as femme, or feminine, but prefers jeans and more casual clothing to dresses and skirts.

A woman who adopts what would be considered masculine characteristics.

:star: Alternate Definition: A (traditionally) masculine man or woman, and especially a masculine lesbian. Often the "dominant" partner in a lesbian relationship, and especially of a butch/femme lesbian relationship.

Dressing masculinely does not make a woman into a lesbian, contrary to popular belief; it's usually more convenient. Acting masculinely only means that's the gender role that the person identifies with; it has nothing to do with their sexual life. A highly masculine man could be gay for all we know and a very feminine man could be straight for all we know, and both of these cases are frequent.

Stone Butch
A stone butch is a lesbian who gets her pleasure from pleasing her partner. She does not like to be touched sexually.

:star: Alternate Definition:  Most masculine of the Butches - may pass as male without actually trying. May identify as transgender, that is identifying outside of the gender usually associated with females. Does all or most of the above in masculine gender expressions. May or may not be sexually aggressive. Will not be made love to as one would a "woman". Will have questioned their gender at some time in their lives. Will not be totally comfortable with their female body. May think of Butch as a separate gender from man & woman.

Pillow Queen
A Pillow Queen is someone who likes to be on the receiving end of sex. She likes to be pleasured and not reciprocate.

Soft Butch
A soft butch is a lesbian whose appearance is generally androgynous. She may dress and act in a masculine manner, but be soft and more feminine in the inside. Also, a soft butch can be someone who falls somewhere between butch and femme, but closer to the butch side.

A stem is a lesbian who identifies somewhere between "stud" and "femme". Also known as Kiki.

Kiki is a term that was used in the lesbian bar culture of the 1950s and 1960s to describe someone who was neither butch nor femme. At that time, the bar culture was very much into roles and most women were pressured to choose either butch or femme.

Dani Campbell, a lesbian firefighter from Florida who was one of the contestants on MTV's Shot at Love with Tila Tequila coined the word "Futch." She says the word describes someone who is neither feminine nor butch, but a cross between.

:star: Alternate Definition: A lesbian, dyke or other variety of queer woman who possesses or displays qualities and identifiers of both butch and femme. (noun)

Futch (adjective) describes:
a) a non-standard display of female masculinity, which contains elements of the feminine (such as clothing, walk, cosmetics, shoes).
b) a non-standard display of queer femininity, containing elements of the masculine (such as clothing, walk, cosmetics, shoes).

If butch/femme is a spectrum, a futch may be found at any or all of the points in between.

A futch presentation may occasionally be ephemeral, caused by the migration of an woman's queer self-identity, but is much more likely to be ongoing and deliberate; reflecting an individual's own position of comfort on the queer gender presentation scale.

Tila Tequila's date, Dani Campbell, a lesbian firefighter from Florida, claims she invented the word "futch" to describe herself as being part butch, part femme. However, a spot of research will reveal that the word has been in moderate usage in the dyke community since at least 1990. Dani would have had to be a very inventive little futch at 11 to be the word's progenitor.

Sometimes futch sighting is a false positive, as in the case of many rural women who make the gaydar spang wildly, but who are merely hetero women who portray common lesbian markers, such as speaking firmly, gesturing strongly, taking no nonsense, and using no botox. While wearing boots.

For lesbians, a boi is a woman who is biologically female, but has a boyish appearance or presentation. A boi may be lesbian identified or s/he may be trans identified. For gay men a boi is a gay man who is boyish or young in appearance or identity.

:star: Alternate Definition: This spelling of the word originated in a gay magazine called, "XY" in the early to mid 1990's. XY is targeted at gay male teenagers. This spelling describes a youthful, hip, and attractive male. While completely embraced in the gay community to mean any young, sexually attractive male, this spelling also appears in heterosexual contexts to mean similarly, a young, handsome guy.

However, now A boi is a lesbian or gender-queer person who identifies most with their male energy and presents themselves as male in their appearance. They may consider themselves to be of either gender although they are anatomically female.

Power Dyke
A Power Dyke is a lesbian who has gained a position of power, either within the LGBT community, or in the world at large. She could be the head of a non-profit agency, a politician or successful in business. Also known as Power Lesbian or a Suit.

Diesel Dyke
A Diesel Dyke is a very butch or manly lesbian, especially one who is very aggressive. In some lesbian circles Diesel Dyke refers to a very butch Big-Rig (or other heavy equipment) driving lesbian. Also known as Bulldagger.

:star: Alternate Definition: A lady (often quite large,) that prefers the (very) close company of other ladies, known as femmes. Regularly seen wearing a lumberjack shirt, boots and dungarees/bib & braces overalls.

Origin: Due to the normal extreme mass of these 'ladies,' it has often been assumed that locomotion could only be facilitated with the assistance of a powerful Diesel engine

Sport Dyke
A sport dyke is a lesbian, who more than anything, identifies with being an athlete. She may also dress in a manner that would give the impression she is an athlete, like baseball caps, sweatshirts and jeans.

Baby Dyke
A young lesbian or someone who is just coming out of the closet. Also know as Dyke in Training. Common Misspellings include: baby dike.

A dominant lesbian, usually butch, often African American.

A hasbian is a woman who used to identify as a lesbian and date women, but is now dating men.

:star: Alternate Definition: A term meaning a lesbian who now partakes in heterosexual activities. However, it does not mean that a woman has CHANGED her sexual orientation, that is something which does not change. She may however have changed her sexual behavior or identity. The woman may truly be straight and have previously been questioning, or the woman may have been a lesbian who has retreated into the closet, or the woman may be bisexual, omnisexual or something else of that nature but by no means can a person change their orientation.

LUG stands for "Lesbian until Graduation". A LUG is a woman who experiments with women during her college years, but eventually decides she is straight and marries a man.

:star: Alternate Definition: Someone who for whatever personal/logistical reasons decides to be a lesbian until graduation. The seriousness of this can range from officially identifying as a lesbian (possibly accompanied by an elaborate coming out process) to avoidance of the offical term and simply fucking around with girls. Rather like cinderella after midnight, these are the girls who revert back to the male half of the species after leaving the college bubble. A very common occurance at women's colleges. Also has a counter-part in the term bi until graduation (BUG). Most frequently used on womens college's campuses, the term may also be used as an insult or warning and is oftentimes by other women who have more romantic or sexual experience with other women (AKA lesbians/bi chicks who have come to terms with their sexuality earlier on and are talking about the chicks who're just now starting to explore).

Drag King
A drag king is a woman who dresses to look like a man, usually for performance. Drag kings are often lesbian, but not always.

:star: Alternate Definition: A woman who, generally for public entertainment, dons men's clothes and adopts a stereotypically masculine demeanor while on stage. As with drag queens, a drag king's performance can range from a silly, overdone parody to a more natural, subtle depiction of masculinity.

A person who is sexually and emotionally attracted to both women and men.

:star: Alternate Definition: To be bisexual is to be attracted to a person regardless or gender or sex. It does not mean that you cannot make up your mind, it does not mean you are sex-crazed, and it does not mean that you will by default participate in orgies every night.

Although not a direct Lesbian term, it is relevant to TheLesbianClub.

A pansexual is someone who is attracted people of many genders. Also known as Omnisexual.

:star: Alternate Definition: A pansexual is someone who isn't influenced by the binaries and labels surrounding gender and sexuality. This can mean attraction to anyone regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation. Some pansexuals take it a step further to be openly against those labels and definitions, considering them to be destructive and alienating.

Although not a direct Lesbian term, it is relevant to TheLesbianClub.

A lesbophile is someone who loves or appreciates lesbians.

This is considered Lesbian Slang.

Although not a direct Lesbian term, it is relevant to TheLesbianClub.

Gayelle is a new word that some women are trying to get to replace the word "lesbian" in the English language. According to, the word lesbian is antiquated and not cheerful or fun. So, they want to create a new word that they feel better fits their perception of themselves. Only time will tell if this new word takes off.

Although this is not a Label for Lesbians, I felt it was important to include this.

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I sincerely hope that this was of help to some people, and that it is fairly accurate. If you feel that something is not accurate, or if you have more questions, please contact TheLesbianClub. We will be happy to answer questions or fix mistakes on this article.

Thank you for taking the time to read it. :heart:

Remember, stay proud! :peace: :heart: :pride:

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:star: References and Credits
:pointr: TheLesbianClub
:pointr: :trirainbow: by NessaPalmer
:pointr: Lesbian on Wikipeda
:pointr: Lesbian Life
:pointr: Urban Dictionary
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kikiwolf678 Featured By Owner Jun 4, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
AliSEEaa Featured By Owner May 30, 2016
What is a "Cherry"?  I was with my friend at a lesbian bar in New York ("The Cubby Hole") and this girl was hitting on me. I told her I was straight and she was pretty disappointed. She was like "I thought you were a Cherry, I was so into you". Can anyone explain?
0scill4te Featured By Owner May 4, 2016  New Deviant
;___; <3
lnsgrl Featured By Owner Mar 23, 2016
My favorites not on your list "Pocket Butch" She's so cute you just want to put her in your pocket and take her home.
OooshleyDeForza Featured By Owner Mar 23, 2016  Hobbyist Artist
i came across this. 

by accident.
squirrelflight15 Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2016
Guess I'm a lesbophile.  When KD Lang had her stunning face on the cover of New York Magazine in the 90s, I was entranced.  I am however as straight as ever.  Never knew it had a name, and I was hoping I could feel these feelings without having to change orientation.  I also really appreciate curvy beautiful female bodies.
Exoticbomb Featured By Owner Feb 25, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
There are no types, just people <3
DoNotTouchMeEver Featured By Owner Feb 22, 2016
There is lesbian porn out there. Porn by lesbians for lesbians. I know because My mother is one. Some of it is really out there. Like the one that had sex with a Parkinson's disease sufferer. It was just sickening. Well, to me anyway. She's a "lipstick/femme" type. She is brilliant and beautiful (I haven't seen her for a number of years, so I don't really know how she is now. Assuming she's even still alive). She is/was also batcrap crazy. I had so many "Aunts" I lost count before I was 10.
OctaWeb Featured By Owner Feb 20, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
I almost seem like a crapload of them.
Definitely the type that rarely wears dresses.
And I'm a proud geek.
friendlyjen Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2016
For all of you upset about the "slutshaming" of women in porn, please consider two cents from a slightly older lesbian.  Though the language could have been softer, the point is understood: it is very frustrating that the women involved in lesbian porn are not (generally) real lesbians.  They are stereotypes of male fantasies, pure and simple.  They wouldn't even theoretically be interested in sleeping with one another were they not being paid.  And it looks ridiculous.  Worse yet, most lesbians can't stand this kind of porn.
KalineReine Featured By Owner Edited Jan 3, 2016  Professional Writer
NO. No to all of this. You're clearly very misinformed about a lot of things. This is an extremely misconstrued article. And deep down, people are all just people. 
Edit: Well, I'm not surprised it seems so backwards and misguided to me. This was written back in 2010, lol. :lmao:
PinkSpaceBird Featured By Owner Dec 25, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Excuse me, why are you LABELING lesbians? Ain't that just a tad rude?
PERKoverload526 Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
sorry, I'm just someone passing by who though that I might offer some qualification.
I''m assuming (which is a dangerous thing)
that this isn't a guide to label PEOPLE, but to label the terms used.
Just as we use different terms to define certain characteristics.
It's a sort of "Urban" dictionary for those who are new/are looking for information on the different terms used in the LGBT community.
It might aid people (such as a new bisexual as myself) to know what the terms mean if someone uses them.
I hope this helped to shed some light.

ps. I don't mean to be rude, please don't take offense
PinkSpaceBird Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
It's fine. I was just kind of upset before I thought about it and labels aren't really saying that lesbians are objects, such as tomboy and girly girl aren't saying that women are objects.
PERKoverload526 Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
No problem~ :)
and it's alright
the title and voice of the argument can be misleading.
mrol Featured By Owner Dec 3, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
"They are whores that are trying to get guys to fuck them." Excuse me, but you shouldn't slut shame women. They are sex workers, that doesn't turn them into objects. Porn stars, who are sex workers, can be straight, gay, bi, etc., regardless of what scenes they are paid to do. Some straight girls are paid to make lesbian porn, or to act with both men and women, and they accept. Some lesbians accept to act in scenes which include guys as well, but that doesn't make them less gay. These are just a few examples.

Think and make a research before you write.
KalineReine Featured By Owner Jan 3, 2016  Professional Writer
^ :iconthisplz: This whole article was so offensive on pretty much every level. I don't understand why it has so many faves. We probably shouldn't be labeling people in the first place. 
friendlyjen Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2016
Labels can be both useful and fun when used within our community.  It is very helpful to be able to identify potential partners that appeal to you.  Sorry, there are just certain types I'm not interested in.  Maybe you are totally, 100% open-minded; good for you.  But for a lot of us, it is better to hone in on those you would be most compatible with and attracted to.  Further, my entire group of friends will refer to one another as "femme" or "babydyke"...why not?  It is all in good fun and nobody gets hurt.  Many minority populations speak this way when in the company of similar people.
mrol Featured By Owner Edited Jan 23, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
I personally don't mind the "lesbian type" labels, after all, they were/are (re)claimed by lesbians, and so it's totally acceptable. Besides, most of the time they aren't even used as a serious labeling system, but mostly included in humorous speech.

The terms which are oppressive towards other groups of people, such as the transgender community, for instance, should be erased, though. I've seen some transphobic and inaccurate definitions in this article. But hey, it's an old post, so I guess it's understandable, as the trans community was way more invisible back then than it is now.
friendlyjen Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2016
Yes, absolutely.  I read an article in "The Advocate" admonishing the use of the word "tranny" by gays and lesbians.  The article pointed out that we gays are no more entitled to use that phrase than other groups.  If we aren't part of the trans community, it is hurtful or inflammatory to use it.  
Smol-Demon-Child Featured By Owner Dec 3, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
How about we just call them 'people' like everyone else?
friendlyjen Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2016
Because some of us are proud to be lesbian and actually want the label.  I do think that I am different and my perspective has been affected by being gay.  I don't want a label just to feel special but (after fighting myself for years), I am certainly not going to hide from it.  
Smol-Demon-Child Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
i never said to hide my dear, i mean you are people thats it. we all are no matter what and no one should be treated different like of your gat, lesbian, black, mxican, buddhist,ect. so be proud but im just saying you ARE people we ARE poeople we all are no matter what. so sorry if you misenterpreted what i said and meant
friendlyjen Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2016
All good.  Very good to discuss things.  And glad we are all people :-)
Smol-Demon-Child Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
okay then ^^ , sorry for the spelling mistakes but im happy your not afraid to be yourself!
Scienceunicorns101 Featured By Owner Nov 23, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I am glad that at least one person doesn't label us bi's as sex-loving freaks.
TheRedKat Featured By Owner Nov 6, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
How I label lesbians: Humans.
Same for every sexuality
chocone Featured By Owner Oct 22, 2015
Well... thats ridiculous.....
DiamondChick64 Featured By Owner Oct 18, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
This was really helpful! When I saw this, I thought, "Hey maybe I can find out more about Daniella, and her obsession with me!" Turns out, she's pansexual!
AllyCat192 Featured By Owner Sep 19, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
I Support Lesbian And Gay Rights. I Really Do..No One Should Be Judged Based Off Their Choices In Love And Choices In Life.
My Aunt Is A Lesbian And Isn't Attacked Or Hurt When People Hate On This..She Is Strong And Others Should Be Too.
DiamondChick64 Featured By Owner Oct 18, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I agree! Nobody should be treated differently, wether it is color of skin, religion, or what gender they chose to love.
AllyCat192 Featured By Owner Oct 19, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
Jalyn85 Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Why is this in my feed ?! XD p.s. im not trying to be rude to anybody who's lesbian and might get offended by this comment
WDisneyRP-Tadashi Featured By Owner Sep 1, 2015
((Gold star, No star, Chapstick, Baby Dyke, Lesbophile! Evee Luv Icon ))
tacomekit729 Featured By Owner Edited Aug 30, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Interesting read, I must say- I didn't know there were so many different terms and.... I guess- categories of Lesbians. I'm not one to label, nor am I one to judge. I'm straight, but I appreciate the LGBT community. I support whatever makes someone happy. Hugs for everybody!
This summary is great in many ways, I liked it even though I'm not much for labels. It's fun reading and both rather nuanced and pretty comprehensive! It shows that you've really worked on it. With the reference link list, I think it can be a good list to start for people who wonder about the words others use, or are looking for something to call themselves. 

I want to fave it... But calling any women "skanks" for what they choose to do with their bodies and sexuality, and using "whores" in a dismissive, demeaning way like that is... Not something I want to give the impression I support. Sorry. 
(And uh, you can't know if any of those "skanks" are gay or not. Some may have sex with men only as a matter of work. Can we extend the respect to sex workers too, please?) 
Fehnryr Featured By Owner Aug 11, 2015
I had no idea there were so many words owo
xXSparkKittyArtistXx Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Yes, this is really nessicary and love able in our lives. Thanks :)
HolyFandom Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
w00t! w00t! w00t! w00t! w00t! w00t! I'm Bi Proud to Serve Gay Pride Emoticon Rainbow Love Avatar-Free2Use LGBT rainbow flag icon pride emote this is amazing!! thank you for making this!!!
LoveDystopian Featured By Owner Aug 5, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
can you do a journal about all the different types of genders? it gets kinda confusing 
Fehnryr Featured By Owner Aug 11, 2015
Seconded, this would be helpful
Kitteh19 Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2015  Student Digital Artist
I'm glad to know someone out there doesn't nag at me for appreciating the gays,lesbians,any of their types.
my friend is ok with bisexuals,but not gays. It kinda made me confused but I'm neutral witha he ideas/principles of gays and same sex relationships.
thanks for the entry,love it :3! 
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Kitteh19 Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2015  Student Digital Artist
I pray for you,BayerScott! I'm so happy you found love and/or happiness in general again! This was a beautiful comment,it really affected me,and it's hard to get me to like something as quick as this did! My brother is gay,Im a supporter 100%!!! 
Have the best life ever,you deserve it Nod Clap +fav 
Yuriwyn Featured By Owner Jul 1, 2015  Student General Artist
I'm a... um... me? Yes. I'm a Me-Lesbian. Blehck, primary labels are confusing enough as they are without all these secondary ones. XD But, I guess if it helps some people define their identities, who am I to complain, right? :)
ArterialBlack716 Featured By Owner Aug 11, 2015
"I'm a... um... me? . . . Blehck, primary labels are confusing enough as they are without all these secondary ones."


this list is crazy. i didn't read all of them, but some of them aren't even sexual orientations. "sport dyke". it's just an athletic lesbian. a lesbian is just a person. thus, an athletic person.

i struggle to understand this whole thing. i imagine most of my friends don't even know my sexual preferences, but the world is out to make theirs into the focal point of their being. isn't there something more important to a person than what they're attracted to?
Yuriwyn Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2015  Student General Artist
Yeah, they definitely aren't doin' it for me. I'm just gonna go with the broad label of "gay", and leave the rest for people to figure out on their own by getting to know me. But I think, for the people who get specific like this, it's less about centering your whole personality shindig around it and more about belonging to something. Or just having fun! I mean, there are tons of quizzes that ask you questions to determine what type of "cookie" or "milkshake" you are, so I think for some people it's just nifty to have a label that describes you to a T. Whatever works for you. :D
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