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The following is an extensive guide to the different Labels a Lesbian may have. In my experience I have come across many Lesbians who just thought they were a Lesbian. This guide was at first for TheLesbianClub's Chatroom Classes, but I have decided that this could benefit not only the club but many people out there. If you are a Lesbian and questioning what type of Lesbian you are, then this guide is for you!

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Lesbian is a term most widely used in the English language to describe sexual and romantic desire between females. The word may be used as a noun, to refer to women who identify themselves or who are characterized by others as having the primary attribute of female homosexuality, or as an adjective, to describe characteristics of an object or activity related to female same-sex desire.

:star: Alternate Definition: A woman who loves or is sexually attracted to women. I read through other descriptions of lesbian and some people who made definitions on this word are just plain retarded.

1. There is NO good or bad type of lesbian. It doesnt matter if they are ugly or pretty. They are people. Just like you get ugly and pretty straight people. You don't group them into 'good and bad groups' do you? =/.

2. Lesbians aren't all man haters. Yes a few are. But then again some (i'm not saying all) straight men are sexist towards women and treat them as objects. So you can't say that lesbians are all sexist when plenty of straight people are.

3. Those skanks you see on internet porn are not lesbians. They are whores that are trying to get guys to fuck them. If they are real lesbians then they AREN'T going to let you fuck them. Look up 'bi-sexual' asshole.

4. YOU AREN'T GOING TO TURN A LESBIAN STRAIGHT BY HAVING SEX WITH THEM. OMG. That's just plain stupid. Some guys that have their heads up their asses seem to think that lesbians are women you havn't ever had sex with a man before. Or that being homosexual is just a mental illness or something that can only be cured with sex with a guy. =/. If she's a lesbian then she's not going to appreciate you trying to fuck her. You'll probably just get slapped.

Another word for lesbian. Usually is only used by people who are gay, lesbian, bisexual or trans. A straight person using this word may offend some people.

:star: Alternate Definition: Although originally a derogatory term for lesbians, it is now often used with pride by lesbians themselves, especially the younger and hipper lesbian crowd. Some lesbians (especially older or super-sensitive ones) still object to the term, but it is becoming increasingly common and mainsteam (at least within the gay community), with events such as "Dyke Nights" or "Dyke Marches" being held around the country. In fact some dykes resent being called a lesbian, as they feel it is much less cool than being called a dyke.

Note: Dyke with a "y" is a lesbian. Dike with an "i" is for damming water.

Gold Star Lesbian
A gold star lesbian is a lesbian who has never slept with a man and has no intention of ever sleeping with a man.

Lone Star Lesbian
A Lone Star Lesbian is not a lesbian from Texas. A Lone Star Lesbian is someone who has only had sex with one person in their life. Straight and bisexual people can be Lone Stars too.

Lipstick Lesbian
A lipstick lesbian is a woman who loves other women, but also loves her clothes and makeup and shoes. She tends to dress on the femmy side. Also known as Femme or Fem.

:star: Alternate Definition: A feminine lesbian. It can be used interchangably with femme to indicate a feminine lesbian, but strictly speaking, a femme is usually attracted to masculine, or butch, lesbians and a lipstick lesbian is attracted to other feminine lesbians.

Often thought of as demure, submissive creatures, many, if not all femmes and lipstick lesbians are quite strong, independant women.

Chapstick Lesbian
A chapstick lesbian is also known as a soft butch or androgynous. She usually dresses quite casually and does not wear make-up. The term Chapstick Lesbian was popularized after an episode of the TV show Ellen. Someone asked Ellen if she were a lipstick lesbian or what. Ellen replied, she was more of a chapstick lesbian.

:star: Alternate Definition: A female homosexual whose gender identity is slightly to the femme side of neutral on the femme-butch continuum of gender presentation but whose appearance and preferences stop short of those of a "lipstick lesbian."

A feminine lesbian. Also known as a Lipstick Lesbian. Sometimes spelled Fem.

:star: Alternate Definition: A (traditionally) feminine woman. Mainly used to refer to a feminine lesbian, and especially a feminine lesbian who is attracted to masculine, or butch lesbians.

Often thought of as passive, dulcet, timid little things with long locks of hair; prissy dresses; great big fawn eyes; a high, baby-doll voice; the courage of a lamb and the intelligence of a gardenia. But we're all human, so don't expect that stereotype of finding every femme to be submissive, faint-hearted little fairies. Plenty of femmes kick butt and are even the dominant over their butch partners.

Blue Jeans Femme
A Blue Jean Femme is a lesbian who identifies as femme, or feminine, but prefers jeans and more casual clothing to dresses and skirts.

A woman who adopts what would be considered masculine characteristics.

:star: Alternate Definition: A (traditionally) masculine man or woman, and especially a masculine lesbian. Often the "dominant" partner in a lesbian relationship, and especially of a butch/femme lesbian relationship.

Dressing masculinely does not make a woman into a lesbian, contrary to popular belief; it's usually more convenient. Acting masculinely only means that's the gender role that the person identifies with; it has nothing to do with their sexual life. A highly masculine man could be gay for all we know and a very feminine man could be straight for all we know, and both of these cases are frequent.

Stone Butch
A stone butch is a lesbian who gets her pleasure from pleasing her partner. She does not like to be touched sexually.

:star: Alternate Definition:  Most masculine of the Butches - may pass as male without actually trying. May identify as transgender, that is identifying outside of the gender usually associated with females. Does all or most of the above in masculine gender expressions. May or may not be sexually aggressive. Will not be made love to as one would a "woman". Will have questioned their gender at some time in their lives. Will not be totally comfortable with their female body. May think of Butch as a separate gender from man & woman.

Pillow Queen
A Pillow Queen is someone who likes to be on the receiving end of sex. She likes to be pleasured and not reciprocate.

Soft Butch
A soft butch is a lesbian whose appearance is generally androgynous. She may dress and act in a masculine manner, but be soft and more feminine in the inside. Also, a soft butch can be someone who falls somewhere between butch and femme, but closer to the butch side.

A stem is a lesbian who identifies somewhere between "stud" and "femme". Also known as Kiki.

Kiki is a term that was used in the lesbian bar culture of the 1950s and 1960s to describe someone who was neither butch nor femme. At that time, the bar culture was very much into roles and most women were pressured to choose either butch or femme.

Dani Campbell, a lesbian firefighter from Florida who was one of the contestants on MTV's Shot at Love with Tila Tequila coined the word "Futch." She says the word describes someone who is neither feminine nor butch, but a cross between.

:star: Alternate Definition: A lesbian, dyke or other variety of queer woman who possesses or displays qualities and identifiers of both butch and femme. (noun)

Futch (adjective) describes:
a) a non-standard display of female masculinity, which contains elements of the feminine (such as clothing, walk, cosmetics, shoes).
b) a non-standard display of queer femininity, containing elements of the masculine (such as clothing, walk, cosmetics, shoes).

If butch/femme is a spectrum, a futch may be found at any or all of the points in between.

A futch presentation may occasionally be ephemeral, caused by the migration of an woman's queer self-identity, but is much more likely to be ongoing and deliberate; reflecting an individual's own position of comfort on the queer gender presentation scale.

Tila Tequila's date, Dani Campbell, a lesbian firefighter from Florida, claims she invented the word "futch" to describe herself as being part butch, part femme. However, a spot of research will reveal that the word has been in moderate usage in the dyke community since at least 1990. Dani would have had to be a very inventive little futch at 11 to be the word's progenitor.

Sometimes futch sighting is a false positive, as in the case of many rural women who make the gaydar spang wildly, but who are merely hetero women who portray common lesbian markers, such as speaking firmly, gesturing strongly, taking no nonsense, and using no botox. While wearing boots.

For lesbians, a boi is a woman who is biologically female, but has a boyish appearance or presentation. A boi may be lesbian identified or s/he may be trans identified. For gay men a boi is a gay man who is boyish or young in appearance or identity.

:star: Alternate Definition: This spelling of the word originated in a gay magazine called, "XY" in the early to mid 1990's. XY is targeted at gay male teenagers. This spelling describes a youthful, hip, and attractive male. While completely embraced in the gay community to mean any young, sexually attractive male, this spelling also appears in heterosexual contexts to mean similarly, a young, handsome guy.

However, now A boi is a lesbian or gender-queer person who identifies most with their male energy and presents themselves as male in their appearance. They may consider themselves to be of either gender although they are anatomically female.

Power Dyke
A Power Dyke is a lesbian who has gained a position of power, either within the LGBT community, or in the world at large. She could be the head of a non-profit agency, a politician or successful in business. Also known as Power Lesbian or a Suit.

Diesel Dyke
A Diesel Dyke is a very butch or manly lesbian, especially one who is very aggressive. In some lesbian circles Diesel Dyke refers to a very butch Big-Rig (or other heavy equipment) driving lesbian. Also known as Bulldagger.

:star: Alternate Definition: A lady (often quite large,) that prefers the (very) close company of other ladies, known as femmes. Regularly seen wearing a lumberjack shirt, boots and dungarees/bib & braces overalls.

Origin: Due to the normal extreme mass of these 'ladies,' it has often been assumed that locomotion could only be facilitated with the assistance of a powerful Diesel engine

Sport Dyke
A sport dyke is a lesbian, who more than anything, identifies with being an athlete. She may also dress in a manner that would give the impression she is an athlete, like baseball caps, sweatshirts and jeans.

Baby Dyke
A young lesbian or someone who is just coming out of the closet. Also know as Dyke in Training. Common Misspellings include: baby dike.

A dominant lesbian, usually butch, often African American.

A hasbian is a woman who used to identify as a lesbian and date women, but is now dating men.

:star: Alternate Definition: A term meaning a lesbian who now partakes in heterosexual activities. However, it does not mean that a woman has CHANGED her sexual orientation, that is something which does not change. She may however have changed her sexual behavior or identity. The woman may truly be straight and have previously been questioning, or the woman may have been a lesbian who has retreated into the closet, or the woman may be bisexual, omnisexual or something else of that nature but by no means can a person change their orientation.

LUG stands for "Lesbian until Graduation". A LUG is a woman who experiments with women during her college years, but eventually decides she is straight and marries a man.

:star: Alternate Definition: Someone who for whatever personal/logistical reasons decides to be a lesbian until graduation. The seriousness of this can range from officially identifying as a lesbian (possibly accompanied by an elaborate coming out process) to avoidance of the offical term and simply fucking around with girls. Rather like cinderella after midnight, these are the girls who revert back to the male half of the species after leaving the college bubble. A very common occurance at women's colleges. Also has a counter-part in the term bi until graduation (BUG). Most frequently used on womens college's campuses, the term may also be used as an insult or warning and is oftentimes by other women who have more romantic or sexual experience with other women (AKA lesbians/bi chicks who have come to terms with their sexuality earlier on and are talking about the chicks who're just now starting to explore).

Drag King
A drag king is a woman who dresses to look like a man, usually for performance. Drag kings are often lesbian, but not always.

:star: Alternate Definition: A woman who, generally for public entertainment, dons men's clothes and adopts a stereotypically masculine demeanor while on stage. As with drag queens, a drag king's performance can range from a silly, overdone parody to a more natural, subtle depiction of masculinity.

A person who is sexually and emotionally attracted to both women and men.

:star: Alternate Definition: To be bisexual is to be attracted to a person regardless or gender or sex. It does not mean that you cannot make up your mind, it does not mean you are sex-crazed, and it does not mean that you will by default participate in orgies every night.

Although not a direct Lesbian term, it is relevant to TheLesbianClub.

A pansexual is someone who is attracted people of many genders. Also known as Omnisexual.

:star: Alternate Definition: A pansexual is someone who isn't influenced by the binaries and labels surrounding gender and sexuality. This can mean attraction to anyone regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation. Some pansexuals take it a step further to be openly against those labels and definitions, considering them to be destructive and alienating.

Although not a direct Lesbian term, it is relevant to TheLesbianClub.

A lesbophile is someone who loves or appreciates lesbians.

This is considered Lesbian Slang.

Although not a direct Lesbian term, it is relevant to TheLesbianClub.

Gayelle is a new word that some women are trying to get to replace the word "lesbian" in the English language. According to, the word lesbian is antiquated and not cheerful or fun. So, they want to create a new word that they feel better fits their perception of themselves. Only time will tell if this new word takes off.

Although this is not a Label for Lesbians, I felt it was important to include this.

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I sincerely hope that this was of help to some people, and that it is fairly accurate. If you feel that something is not accurate, or if you have more questions, please contact TheLesbianClub. We will be happy to answer questions or fix mistakes on this article.

Thank you for taking the time to read it. :heart:

Remember, stay proud! :peace: :heart: :pride:

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:star: References and Credits
:pointr: TheLesbianClub
:pointr: :trirainbow: by NessaPalmer
:pointr: Lesbian on Wikipeda
:pointr: Lesbian Life
:pointr: Urban Dictionary
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Scienceunicorns101 Featured By Owner 6 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I am glad that at least one person doesn't label us bi's as sex-loving freaks.
TheRedKat Featured By Owner Nov 6, 2015  New Deviant Hobbyist Traditional Artist
How I label lesbians: Humans.
Same for every sexuality
chocone Featured By Owner Oct 22, 2015
Well... thats ridiculous.....
DiamondChick64 Featured By Owner Oct 18, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
This was really helpful! When I saw this, I thought, "Hey maybe I can find out more about Daniella, and her obsession with me!" Turns out, she's pansexual!
AllyCat192 Featured By Owner Sep 19, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
I Support Lesbian And Gay Rights. I Really Do..No One Should Be Judged Based Off Their Choices In Love And Choices In Life.
My Aunt Is A Lesbian And Isn't Attacked Or Hurt When People Hate On This..She Is Strong And Others Should Be Too.
DiamondChick64 Featured By Owner Oct 18, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I agree! Nobody should be treated differently, wether it is color of skin, religion, or what gender they chose to love.
AllyCat192 Featured By Owner Oct 19, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
Jalyn85 Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Why is this in my feed ?! XD p.s. im not trying to be rude to anybody who's lesbian and might get offended by this comment
WDisneyRP-Tadashi Featured By Owner Sep 1, 2015
((Gold star, No star, Chapstick, Baby Dyke, Lesbophile! Evee Luv Icon ))
tacomekit729 Featured By Owner Edited Aug 30, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Interesting read, I must say- I didn't know there were so many different terms and.... I guess- categories of Lesbians. I'm not one to label, nor am I one to judge. I'm straight, but I appreciate the LGBT community. I support whatever makes someone happy. Hugs for everybody!
This summary is great in many ways, I liked it even though I'm not much for labels. It's fun reading and both rather nuanced and pretty comprehensive! It shows that you've really worked on it. With the reference link list, I think it can be a good list to start for people who wonder about the words others use, or are looking for something to call themselves. 

I want to fave it... But calling any women "skanks" for what they choose to do with their bodies and sexuality, and using "whores" in a dismissive, demeaning way like that is... Not something I want to give the impression I support. Sorry. 
(And uh, you can't know if any of those "skanks" are gay or not. Some may have sex with men only as a matter of work. Can we extend the respect to sex workers too, please?) 
Fehnryr Featured By Owner Aug 11, 2015
I had no idea there were so many words owo
xXSparkKittyArtistXx Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Yes, this is really nessicary and love able in our lives. Thanks :)
HolyFandom Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
w00t! w00t! w00t! w00t! w00t! w00t! I'm Bi Proud to Serve Gay Pride Emoticon Rainbow Love Avatar-Free2Use LGBT rainbow flag icon pride emote this is amazing!! thank you for making this!!!
LoveDystopian Featured By Owner Aug 5, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
can you do a journal about all the different types of genders? it gets kinda confusing 
Fehnryr Featured By Owner Aug 11, 2015
Seconded, this would be helpful
Kitteh19 Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2015  Student Digital Artist
I'm glad to know someone out there doesn't nag at me for appreciating the gays,lesbians,any of their types.
my friend is ok with bisexuals,but not gays. It kinda made me confused but I'm neutral witha he ideas/principles of gays and same sex relationships.
thanks for the entry,love it :3! 
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Kitteh19 Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2015  Student Digital Artist
I pray for you,BayerScott! I'm so happy you found love and/or happiness in general again! This was a beautiful comment,it really affected me,and it's hard to get me to like something as quick as this did! My brother is gay,Im a supporter 100%!!! 
Have the best life ever,you deserve it Nod Clap +fav 
Yuriwyn Featured By Owner Jul 1, 2015  Student General Artist
I'm a... um... me? Yes. I'm a Me-Lesbian. Blehck, primary labels are confusing enough as they are without all these secondary ones. XD But, I guess if it helps some people define their identities, who am I to complain, right? :)
ArterialBlack716 Featured By Owner Aug 11, 2015
"I'm a... um... me? . . . Blehck, primary labels are confusing enough as they are without all these secondary ones."


this list is crazy. i didn't read all of them, but some of them aren't even sexual orientations. "sport dyke". it's just an athletic lesbian. a lesbian is just a person. thus, an athletic person.

i struggle to understand this whole thing. i imagine most of my friends don't even know my sexual preferences, but the world is out to make theirs into the focal point of their being. isn't there something more important to a person than what they're attracted to?
Yuriwyn Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2015  Student General Artist
Yeah, they definitely aren't doin' it for me. I'm just gonna go with the broad label of "gay", and leave the rest for people to figure out on their own by getting to know me. But I think, for the people who get specific like this, it's less about centering your whole personality shindig around it and more about belonging to something. Or just having fun! I mean, there are tons of quizzes that ask you questions to determine what type of "cookie" or "milkshake" you are, so I think for some people it's just nifty to have a label that describes you to a T. Whatever works for you. :D
kaelvantheunicorn Featured By Owner Jun 24, 2015   Artist
Yup baby dyke.
Gotta love being a lipstick lesbian :)
TERABIZLX Featured By Owner Jun 6, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm just a sweet lil' baby
KKirokoProductions Featured By Owner Jun 3, 2015
You are so hackin' awesome for posting this. I could just kiss you!!!
UnderTheBondi Featured By Owner Edited Apr 26, 2015   Photographer
Well... I've learned that gay community has more sub-genres than metal...
Which is a lot...
And I'm not quite sure making a guide about "types" of lesbians
is gonna help the world or the lesbian pride... You can't classify people.
This is self-degrading and self-limiting if you are indeed a lesbian.
Real lesbians aren't out there writing teenish articles just to...
What was your purpose again?
And no, I am a man, of course I can't be a lesbian
(unless there is also a sub-genre for a lesbian who actually is a man
who likes women, you tell me)...
But I do know a bunch of them and I think if they read this
they'd be most likely offended than proud.
chocone Featured By Owner Oct 22, 2015
As a lesbian, I found that journal really useless and stupid. We should stop put labels everywhere if we want to be happy. 
UnderTheBondi Featured By Owner Oct 30, 2015   Photographer
Agreed. That's what I was saying from the beginning.
KKirokoProductions Featured By Owner Jun 3, 2015
Erm.. believe it or not, lesbian men are sort of ish (?) an actual community of men and I guess they basically are men who are trapped in a man's body and would refuse to have sex using their penis. I guess you could say it may be a pre-stage to being trans and just not having the surgery yet, or something. I dont know too much about it, but apparently it's a thing.
UnderTheBondi Featured By Owner Jun 3, 2015   Photographer
Yeah... My point is that everything is a thing...
And we have too many names for "things"...
So... Yes, no... "Lesbian men" is a stupid definition...
No offense intended. Naturally, males are supposed to like
females (don't try to put any humanity in that sentence, I'm
speaking biology)... So... A male which likes females... Is perfectly
male... Not a lesbian male.
And if I live in a society which is going to mutilate itself in nonsense
-like cutting your penis because you think that's gonna attract
lesbians instead of just finding a gal who understands the alledged
matter about the penis in question- doing a conversion to
nothing (you realize the definition of a lesbian man is the definition of nothing, don't you?),
then we are ought to be extinct. Soon. Please, japs, yankees, chinese people, russians, anyone
with this power, please...
Let me know a bit before so I can't take my last picture...
KKirokoProductions Featured By Owner Jun 13, 2015
Yeah, I don't really get the lesbian man thing either [since I'm just flat out lesbian anyway]. I was just stating that it was apparently a thing. From what I've heard, not all choose to "cut" anything off. 

Anywho, I was not intending to trigger any rage and if I did so, I apologize. However, rest assured that this was not my intent. We just so happen to be in a forever changing world and whether we like it or not, we're gonna have to deal with it. As far as going extinct, there are still plenty of couples still capable of reproducing and tons of overpopulation happening internationally, so unless another meteor hit us [or another natural weather caused us all to die out] I don't think we're going extinct that soon. [Hopefully not, anyway].

All in all, I feel that there are a lot more things that are worth raging about rather than one's self identification. Just chill out, man. If it isn't affecting you directly, no need to wish death upon someone for it.
UnderTheBondi Featured By Owner Jun 13, 2015   Photographer
Oh, no, sorry... I'm outrageous naturally. It wasn't you.
I'm just on the side that wishes extinction and anything
will justify it.
Don't like myself, don't like any human.
"I don't even like the people I like", that sort of thing.
But within those limits, I find flat out lesbians to be cool
people in general, at least those who I know.
Which I don't like is to put people into a manual and
make taxonomy of lesbians, gays, mental illnesses that doesn't exist
and so on. This article falls into a part of being a human being
that I really find annoying... It's like the DSM and...
Well, I think I've made my point here...
No, this article doesn't affect me directly, but unnecessary people
clasification does, so...
And, again, I hope for extinction... It's nothing personal. I'm gonna go down too...
We're all ought to die and dying isn't either a good or a bad thing, it doesn't
accept moral questions since it's unavoidable. That said, extinction sounds
better than many ways to die.
Imagine a view with a sky full of colours while the world collapses, with your beloved people...
It ain't so bad, you get to see the end of it all.
Sad part is you don't get to tell the story, but one can't have anything.
Yes, you can think I'm crazy. And you can say it. I won't be offended.
Sorry for the rage you've taken from me... It wasn't meant for you, but for
the idea you told me about. (Yes, I get mad at ideas; again, you can call me crazy)
KKirokoProductions Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2015
While I do agree that the human taxonomy is unnecessary, but this list isn't necessarily supposed to appeal nicely to everyone. 
Some people just look into this for fun and some others just feel super out of place and lists like these do somewhat serve a
purpose in the sense of making that said person not feel completely alone. I'm currently in a really shitty place too and the stupidity 
displayed here also makes me wish for the extinction in life, but going about it in this way would only send up red flags to others
and attract other people to hate on or argue endlessly about the subject. Think of that one person that does nothing but shout
forever. That's the person most people just shrug off, rage at or just flat out stop listening. What you described to me just now
was a better way of going about it. You're not crazy, you just have an unpopular point of view. 
Mithrilda Featured By Owner Apr 26, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Well, there are different types of labels. Labels that society places on people without their consent that objectify or stereotype them are bad. But there are other types of labels too. If someone self identifies with a certain group and it brings them joy to tell others that they are a part of something or share the same values as this group, then it's just a part of their identity and there's nothing negative about that.
Inkadee Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
This was pretty interesting to read; good job !
MissMuffinTop Featured By Owner Mar 31, 2015   Writer
I know this is an old deviation, but like, no love for lipgloss lesbians?
aIIygator Featured By Owner Mar 24, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i believe im femme
Bix-adoptables Featured By Owner Mar 19, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I honestly get a bit offended when people say "i didn't know there where this many different lesbian types!" not knowing the labels and their exact meaning, sure. But not knowing that not everyone is a stereotype is everything wrong with people. shouldn't I be a rock because I'm asexual?!? no
Gemfire13 Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Professional Traditional Artist
I hate 'Gayelle'...why do all our identifying terms have to be an extension/alternate of a male term???....wo-man; fe-male; gay-elle  :-/
randomshitstuff Featured By Owner Edited Apr 10, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I immediately thought the same... it's crazy how people even consciously still want to do it!
Jenny345 Featured By Owner Mar 2, 2015
I am straight and yet I did not know that.
Mmelvill Featured By Owner Feb 11, 2015
Hi if you have a tumblr follow me I'm a femme lesbian and I post a lot on lesbian couples and on love in general. My tumblr is: lesbihonest-pan
RavenPonderlust Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
very informative, thank you! 
IZZAME123 Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2014  Hobbyist Photographer
What if you're femme, but you are a top with a soft butch??? Can that happen? Well it can, but is it common?
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